We will be doing IVF with ICSI with a GC. What that means is that we will do a stimulation of my system to harvest enough follicles with ova in them to inseminate them via intra cellular sperm injection to create embryos. Those embryos will be grown to 3-5 days age at which point 1-2 will be transferred to a gestational carrier. Hopefully 1 or 2 will implant into her uterus and a baby or two will result. The chance of twins is between 30 and 50%.
The cost is between $20,000 and $70,000. If we can find a GC who will do this out of the kindness of her heart it will be towards the lower end. If not, well there's no way we can afford 70K.